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When Do Toddlers Start Running, Jumping, Kicking and Climbing?

Buckle up because once your toddler takes those first steps, they're on a whirlwind adventure of running, jumping, and climbing. These big movements, known as gross motor skills, are a vital part of their development, involving large muscle activities like sitting unassisted and mastering ball games. 💨When do toddlers learn to run?Get ready for your little speedster to upgrade from walking to running around 18 to 24 months. 🏃‍♂️ While a tumble here and there is par for the course, by the time they hit the terrific three, running will be second nature to them. To boost their need for speed, supercharge their playtime with push toys and fun games of "chase." Join the action with hide and seek or lively rounds of Simon Says. Encourage outdoor exploration by letting them tear around the backyard and take mini-walks or runs, ditching the stroller now and then. 🏁🚗 And for a real running bonanza, head to the park where they can dash around the playground or chase butterflies along nature trails under your watchful eye. It's all about letting them unleash their energy in a safe and supervised way! Jumping and Climbing!🔔Developing Jumping SkillsAs your toddler hits the age of 2, get ready for a jumpstart in their development. From one-foot hops to confidently landing both feet off the ground, they'll be hopping, leaping, and exploring the thrill of jumping. 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♂️ Boost their jumping skills with playful strategies: step-hopping, froggy-style squats, and imitating animal hoppers like bunnies and kangaroos.🔔Fostering Confidence and Balance through JumpingHelp them balance and build confidence by holding their hand initially and gradually letting them spread their wings, or in this case, their arms. 🧸 Once they've mastered walking, they'll eagerly embrace this new challenge, seeking new heights and fresh perspectives on life.Between their first and second birthdays, climbing becomes their favorite pastime. 🔔Encouraging Safe ClimbingBy age 2, most toddlers can expertly climb up and down on furniture without any assistance. Create a safe climbing environment with plastic slides and step stools, visit playgrounds for adventure, and establish clear boundaries about where they can climb. Offer guidance through modeling and clear feedback, nurturing their confidence and coordination as they explore the world from new heights. 🌟How about kicking?Get ready for your toddler's soccer debut! ⚽ Somewhere between 18 and 24 months, they'll start showing interest in kicking a ball, and by age 2, most toddlers can't resist giving it a boot. While their first kicks may be more spontaneous than strategic, with practice and patience, they'll be scoring goals in no time. 🥅To help them practice, start with a ball and enjoy some playful back-and-forth kicking sessions. If they need extra encouragement, consider a toddler sports class for a bit of peer motivation. And, remember, if those kicks get a bit too enthusiastic, it's crucial to set boundaries by addressing aggressive behavior with clear verbal guidance and swift intervention during playdates. Always keep your cool – adult aggression isn't part of the game plan. 👨‍🏫

Raising multilingual and bilingual children

If you and your partner are able to speak more than one language, or if you are living in a bilingual environment🌎, there is no reason why you would choose to stick to a single language. Yes, we know it will not be as easy as it sounds🥲, but there are so many benefits worth trying out!Good for your child's developmentThere were numerous studies 📖 proving that being bilingual has many cognitive benefits, which will activate your child's brain better! It helps them to have better academic results, and later in their life, it gives your child more options for diverse and interesting career opportunities🤓. Also, your child will have a better connection with your family with enhanced emotional bonds, which will make everybody happy!How to: 👨‍👩‍👧Your family's optionsIf you and your partner both speak the same language at home and your family is living in, let's say an English-speaking community, speaking your language at home and English outside will help your child to learn faster. 👩‍🏫If you and your partner speak different languages, the easiest way for you and your partner is to speak each of your own languages to your child. Surprisingly, children accept both languages naturally and will use them at the proper moment!☀️In daily lifeIt is always a good idea to bring learning and playing together🪅. Find friends who speak the same language. Watch movies, play games, read stories, and sing songs in both languages so that your child can be exposed to both languages in everyday life. There are many books and apps that support bilingual education, so you might want to take a look at them as well!🤔Any disadvantages?Delayed language development They begin speaking 3 to 6 months later than monolingual children. Though there is no scientific evidence, this makes sense: a bilingual child has twice as many words to learn📚. Mixing languages Learning two languages at the same time can be very confusing. This can create a risk of the child not perfecting any of the two languages. But in most cases, the problems are only temporary😉.💕Raising multilingual requires efforts from parents!As your child gets older, they might be less willing to speak a language other than the language they use the most eventually - English in this case. They might start to respond in English even if you talk to them in your language🙄.Even so, you should keep using their languages so your child doesn't lose track of them. There are more challenges and requires more effort compared to raising monolingual children. But the effort you put in is well worth giving your child a skill that will take him far and help him achieve his goals in his future life💪!

Parenting stress

That nervous feeling when you're about to meet your baby for the first time is engraved in your heart.💓 You just look at them in awe every time and gain strength to become the best parents for them. But you can't avoid stress along the way…Parenting stress👪What is parenting stress?Parenting stress is the distress when you feel you can't cope as a parent.😞 After pregnancy, expectations and demands placed on you are so high that you seem to run out of resources and strength to meet them. 👪What causes parenting stress?The causation varies depending on each family. Stress can originate from poor economic status, inadequate support system, and exposure to hostility.⚔️ Anything that makes you worry about your ability to protect your child and thrive can contribute to parenting stress.🙁Ways to cope with parenting stress👪Reach out for supportParenting is a lot easier if you have your supporters on your side.👪 Contact your friends, family members and especially your partner to share your feelings. You can always count on their support for emotional support, financial aid💰 and childcare help.If you don't live near friends or relatives, you can look for local parenting cooperatives, online communities and trained therapis‍ts.😀 Enrolling in parenting classes can be helpful too as you can seek new friends, reduce your feelings of guilt and stress while gaining more knowledge.👪Avoid unnecessary exposure to signals that drag you downAfter a very brief exposure to negative emotional content, it's natural that you pay attention more to upsetting images, replay bad memories and worry about the future. Such thoughts keep circulating in your head, causing more anxiety and gloom.😥Overdosing on bad news spikes up your stress levels, undermines yourself and hurts you gradually. Instead, try to put yourself together, think constructively, think brightly.🤔 Everything will be just fine and you can do it! 👪Focus on the goodYou can induce good moods by downloading happy memories into your head. Do you remember when your little one just took the first step or called your name for the first time? When you return home from work, remember how you feel when you see your child's smiles and hugs.🤗Reflect on good memories and read jokes, uplifting stories to make you feel better. Focusing on acts of kindness and positive messages will help you decrease stress responses.😀👪Re-appraise the situationWe often think that we are good at predicting things if we have a plan. Actually, we are pretty bad at anticipating future discomforts. Sometimes, stressful things just occur along the way.😞When bad things happen, you may find a coping strategy when you reconsider the situation from a new angle. Stop dwelling too much on your personal emotional reactions, try to view the problem with more objectivity.💪 

Skin rashes in babies and toddlers - Part 3

Phew, never knew there are so many viruses causing skin disease! Here is the last list of the skin rashes. Let's continue💪!✔️ChickenpoxYou might be familiar with Chickenpox! Chickenpox got its nickname because the bumps look like chickpeas🐤. Varicella-zoster virus is the cause of Chickenpox, and it spreads very easily to people who haven't had the disease or gotten the vaccine yet. A red, itchy rash starts out on the face and soon it spreads through the body. The blisters are very itchy, and the virus also brings fever and headache.✔️RingwormIf you have a dog or cat living at your house🐕, you are probably familiar with Ringworm disease. Ringworm is a fungal infection that forms red patches that grow ring-like round shapes. When a fungus lives on the skin or scalp in a warm and moist environment, it grows out of control and develops Ringworm. It can also be transferred by contact with infected people or animals like cats or dogs. Luckily the infection is mild, but the rash could be itchy and uncomfortable. Using antifungal cream will soothe the infected area🧴. ✔️ImpetigoImpetigo is a bacterial skin infection. It makes red rashes and brown, crusty oozy sores😵. Often these marks start to form around the mouth and nose and spread to other vulnerable parts such as the diaper area. The bacteria easily spreads from contact with an infected person, and it is more active in humid, high-temperature conditions. Antibiotics are used for treatment.✔️MeaslesMeasles shows similar symptoms to a cold at first. After 4 to 5 days, pink rashes will start to develop all over the baby's body, and coughing will start. Baby's temperature can rise up to 104°F🤒!  The symptoms last for 2 to 3 days and diminish in 7 to 10 days after the outbreak. However, if the baby gets bad Measles, it can lead to serious problems such as hearing loss, pneumonia, and swelling of the brain. Currently, The MMR vaccine is given to babies aged 12 to 15 months to protect against Measles.  ✔️Scarlet fever Scarlet fever is when your little one gets a red rash all over the body because of strep throat. A high Fever of over 103°F develops all of a sudden, and sore throat, and headache follows. The baby's tongue changes abnormally as well. It gets coated with white and red, which somewhat looks like a strawberry🍓! The disease can be easily treated with antibiotics, but it can be dangerous to miss the timing, so you should act fast if you see any of these symptoms arises!🏃‍♀️✔️Lyme disease Lyme disease is transmitted through the bite of ticks🪲. Young children are exposed to Lyme disease because they are likely to play outside and spend time in woody and grassy areas, where ticks might bite. When the baby gets infected, a red rash starts to appear along with flu-like symptoms🤒. The disease easily goes away with antibiotics in the early stages. However, if it is left untreated, it can cause serious complications over time, so early treatment is important!

Never leave children in cars!

Let's say you were driving alone with your child to get some quick groceries.🚗 When you arrive at the parking lot, you find out your child is asleep in the back seat of your car. Now, the temptation might arise in your mind: 'Can I leave my child in the car and get things done real quick? It's only going to take a few minutes!'🤔Yes, I know it is tempting, but you gotta keep in mind that the definite answer is: You are never allowed to leave your child alone in a car, in any situation!Why is that?The internal temperature of a parked car may vary by up to 40°C from the outside temperature, especially in summer🔥. Under these circumstances, children can get dehydrated and suffer life-threatening heatstroke. This can even lead them to death!😨  Accidental leaving in carsRaising a child sometimes leads you to  get into unintended situations. If you are tired, stressed, or distracted, you might face the situation of accidentally leaving your child in the car. 😪 (If this has happened to you already, this actually happens quite a lot. So don't blame yourself, you are not alone!) To prevent this from happening, making a habit of always checking the backseat before getting out of the car would be helpful. Also there are many products that can help you, such as car seat sensors or back seat video monitors, so it would be good to get help from these devices as well.👍Accidental locking in carsSometimes children accidentally lock themselves in the car.😮 Newer cars often have auto-lock features, so it will be helpful if you can make a habit of winding windows down before putting children in the car. Keep your car keys with you all the time, and do not let your child play with car keys.🔑 Children might get curious about all the interesting buttons inside the car. Tell them pushing buttons in the car could be dangerous, and teach them not to do so!

Caring for newborn skins

Bringing your new baby home🏠 is such a magical and exciting time! However, we completely understand that taking care of their delicate skin, hair, and nails can feel a bit overwhelming, especially if you're a new parent🫠. We are here to share some tips that will make this journey easier and less intimidating for you! How to care for your baby's skin! 💆🏻SkinYour baby's skin is sensitive, so opt for gentle and mild products specifically designed for newborns. Look for baby-friendly cleansers, shampoos, and moisturizers that are free from harsh chemicals and fragrances. Keeping it simple will help prevent any potential irritation or discomfort.💅NailsTo prevent accidental scratches, keep your baby's nails short and smooth. Use baby-sized nail clippers or emery boards designed specifically for infants. Choose a time when your little one is calm and relaxed, and be sure to have good lighting to help you see what you're doing. Take it slow and be extra cautious to avoid any mishaps.🪮HairWhen it comes to their hair, gently wash it with a soft baby brush or a mild shampoo, being careful not to tug or pull. Baby hair is delicate and may not require frequent washing, so follow your baby's cues and adjust accordingly.How to protect your baby's skin from bug bites Dress your little one in clothing that not only shields them from the sun but also helps keep those bugs away🦟. For babies over 2 months old, it's safe to use insect repellents containing up to 30% DEET. Just spray it on your hands first, then gently apply it to their exposed skin and clothing, being careful to avoid the mouth and eyes. Once you're back inside, make sure to wash it off🛁. More tips to protect your baby's skin from the weather To protect your baby's skin from the weather, dress them in lightweight, breathable clothing with sun protection and use a wide-brimmed hat👒 and sunscreen for sunny days. In colder weather, layer their clothing, cover their head and extremities, and avoid exposure to extreme cold or drafts. Shield them from the wind with stroller covers or blankets🧶! 

Top questions about baby formula

You might think formula feeding is straightforward - choose a formula that fits your baby and fill it up in their favorite bottle🍼. But for new moms, there is a whole lot of confusion beyond the descriptions on the formula can! Here are some answers for moms👩 frequently asked about formula feeding.About choosing formulas:🍼What is the best baby formula for a newborn?I know there are various choices for baby formula, but I would say the best one is the one that you can easily find in the nearby store🏪. Generally, formulas out there are all FDA-approved if sold in the USA, so I would say the ones you have easy access are the best.The story will be different if your newborn has any kind of allergies, and your pediatrician will make a recommendation when you gave birth at a hospital, so you might want to follow their recommendation.🍼Can you switch formulas?Generally, there is no issue with switching your baby's formula. Changing the brand or type your baby usually had is perfectly fine. However, if you can, try to stick with the same formula if there was no problem while feeding it😉. If your baby had no problem with the formula you were using, but you want to change the brand, try finding the formula with the same base as the previous one. For example, if the one you used is cow's milk-based, changing to the one that's also cow's milk under a different label based will be safer.Formula mixing: 🍼How long can baby formula sit out after it's mixed?The best is to offer the formula in a timely manner, but I know it is not easy as it sounds! If the formula is at room temperature and hasn't been contacted with the baby's mouth, it has to be consumed within two hours of preparation. If you can't, store it in a refrigerator🧊 and use it within 24 hours! However, you should throw out the leftovers if there are any in the bottle for safety reasons because the combination of baby saliva and formula can grow bacteria!🍼Should baby formula always be warm?It is not mandatory to make the formula warm. So if you are too tired or in a hurry to warm the formula, you don't have to feel guilty about giving a room temperature bottle because they are perfectly fine😌. NEVER use a microwave to warm the formula because it creates hot spots and could burn a baby's mouth! Always check the temperature of the formula before serving it.Safety tips when using formulaAlways check your formula can for safety👷! See if they are expired, damaged, or leaked. Also check inside to see if there are any unusual, such as moles or uncertain lumps. If you spy on any one of them, don't use it🙅‍♀️!  If the formula is too watery, it can interfere with growth and nutrition. If the formula is too thick, on the other way, it might cause dehydration! So before you start mixing the brand-new formula, always check the instruction and follow the right measurement. 

Aggression, Hitting, and Biting

Toddlers can sometimes turn into little wrestlers, but it's all part of their development. Encourage them to express themselves differently and help them learn about emotions. 😊🧡Why toddlers hitToddlers, with their developing independence and enthusiasm, sometimes grapple with communication limitations that can lead to episodes of frustration and, yes, the occasional bout of hitting. 🧗‍♂️Hitting usually peaks around age 2 or 3 for several reasons. First, toddlers are often testing limits as they explore their independence. Second, they're developing impulse control, but it's a work in progress, making it challenging to curb the urge to hit when frustration strikes. Third, as they begin to grasp social skills like sharing and taking turns, they might resort to hitting when things don't go their way. Fourth, when intense emotions bubble up – whether due to excitement, stress, anger, or sadness – toddlers may turn to hitting as a way to express themselves before they've fully mastered the art of words. 👶💬How to respond when your toddler hitsWhen your toddler tests the hitting waters, remain calm and consistent. Set clear boundaries and respond immediately, using a timeout strategy for one minute per year of age. Encourage alternative activities during this cool-down period, like playing with Play-Doh to help them manage their emotions. 🥁Avoid lengthy lectures and physical punishment like spanking, as they don't effectively teach emotional regulation. Use logical consequences instead – for instance, if they misbehave in a ball pit, remove them and explain they can return when they can play nicely. Remember, overstimulating environments can challenge their impulse control. 💁‍♀️Consistency is crucial in addressing hitting episodes. After the situation cools down, discuss what happened, emphasizing that while it's okay to feel angry, hitting is not an acceptable way to express it. Encourage them to find healthier ways to manage their emotions! 💪Ways to stop when your toddler hitsRecognize patterns in your toddler's behavior – if you notice they tend to get feisty right before a nap when they're overtired, create a soothing, low-key environment during those times. When you're out and about, say at the park or mall, and they're overwhelmed by the sensory circus, consider giving them a gentle breather. 🎈Boost positive behavior reinforcement by acknowledging their good moments. Celebrate when they ask politely for a turn on the swing instead of resorting to playground tussles. Show them the power of their words, making good behavior more rewarding. 😆Be mindful of their media consumption – some children's shows and games can contain intense scenes of shouting and shoving. 👓 Opt for high-quality, age-appropriate content, especially if your toddler is sensitive to the influences they encounter.

What if your baby falls?

Oops did your baby just fall off a chair? Let's go check them out if there is any serious injury!What should you do when your baby just falls off?👶The baby looks okay to youThe moment your baby falls off gives you an adrenaline rush.🏃‍♀️ You run as fast as you can to your baby to make sure that your child doesn't have any serious wounds.If the baby looks okay, probably the fall doesn't cause serious injury or break some bones.🦴 You still need to continue observing your baby for the next 24 hours to see if any symptoms develop. 👶The baby feels uncomfortableIf your baby is crying out loud, probably they must have gotten hurt or they are irritable because of the fall.😭 The best decision is to take them to the doctor to get checked out thoroughly. It's not necessary to keep the child awake although it's better to monitor their health when they are still active.🤾‍♀️ What is dangerous is that they probably fall on their head, feel dizzy and want to sleep but can't easily wake up. If they sleep, you should wake them after two hours to see if the child is still alert.💤Stay calm to identify serious signs👶Simple signsYou can't help feeling anxious when you see your child crying nonstop.😭 If the baby just has a light bump, their tears come from pain or fright and will not last longer than 10 minutes. 👶Serious signsConstant headache or dizziness can be the result of a serious hit.🤕 Your baby might be extremely irritable and cry incessantly. More severely, you may see them excessively sleepy and have a difficult time waking up. The baby might vomit after a strong hit on their head.🤮Treatment for your baby👶Treatment at homeIf you have successfully ruled out serious injury, you can treat your baby's mild bump at home. Wrap an ice pack🧊 in a thin towel or diaper and hold it onto the bump for fifteen or twenty minutes. You can nurse them or say something sweet to your little one to soothe them and distract them from the pain.😀If your baby is constantly in pain, you can give them the appropriate amount of acetaminophen or ibuprofen.💊 Avoid aspirin because it can cause a rare but serious condition called Reye's syndrome.👶Call the ER!If your child experiences loss of consciousness, unresponsiveness, non stop bleeding, you have to call for an emergency.🚑 Any signs of a fractured bone, a concussion, inability to walk steadily or talk, prolonged screaming indicate your baby can be in danger. You have to talk to their doctor immediately and take the baby to the emergency room.👩‍⚕️

Rain Gear for Toddlers

Navigating puddles is practically a rite of passage for your little adventurer, and we've got the perfect toolkit to keep her cozy and (mostly) dry. Introducing the must-have toddler rain gear to make those rainy-day escapades a breeze. Let's ensure every splash💦 is a joyous one!An umbrella☔When picking an umbrella for your little one, go for a small, safe model. Look for features like an easy-to-grip handle and plastic knobs, so there are no sharp parts to worry about. Let your kiddo choose one with their favorite superhero🦸🏻 – it makes rainy days more fun!If your little explorer isn't quite ready to handle their own umbrella, go for a bigger option that you can carry. Think of those large golf umbrellas that can cover the whole family, reaching up to 68 inches. Choose a sturdy "windproof" model to avoid any unexpected flips on windy days. Because in the world of rainy adventures, we've got you covered (literally)☂️✨!A raincoat and rain boots!When it comes to dressing your little one for rainy days, think comfy and flexible. Whether it's a ladybug-themed jacket or a classic yellow slicker, avoid stiff raincoats that might cramp your tot's style. Instead, go for a softer, waterproof jacket that moves with your on-the-go kiddo. Look for ones with zip-in layers to keep them warm when it's damp outside. Choose a size that's roomy but not too big, and you can always roll up the sleeves for a perfect fit that grows with them. Safety first – keep those little hands🖐🏻 free!Now, let's talk about a must-have for puddle jumping💧 – rain boots! Just like regular shoes, make sure they fit well to avoid any twisted ankles. No need to spend a fortune here; galoshes are sturdy and hold up well, making them perfect for passing on to younger siblings or friends. Check with friends who have older kids – they might have a couple of outgrown pairs waiting for a new adventure! The goal is to keep your tot dry and stylish without breaking the bank☔.A stroller coverIf you're always out and about with your stroller or rely on walking in the city, think about getting a good weather-proof stroller cover. A cover that fits most strollers should work, but for the best protection, go for one made for your specific stroller model. Keep your little one cozy and dry, no matter what the weather throws at you☔🚶‍♂️👶!